Big Sky Euro

sorry to hear about this matt i realy hope that this works out for you

Hey Matt I feel your pain bro. was in almost hte same predicament but no children were involved out in Cali.
My prayers are with ya man.

Thanks Mike, I just like to keep you up to date. I will try to mellow out on the details, I did get to talk to Jackson today and that little voice was the best sound I have ever heard in my entire life. I decided today that after Oct first I'm going to move back into my parents basement to start saving mad money and get some debt paid off. I'm trying to get a seperation going to where she is there for awhile and I'm here and then after the first of the year if she wants me back I'll move back to Fargo if she does not yet then we'll take it from there. Right now she just needs time at least I'm hoping that is what she wants. It will suck living with my parents again but the rent is free and then I can save up and get out of debt. I'm also thinkign of getting a second job.
Thanks again for the support and I'll keep you posted.

So my wife does not want to make this work, the divorce is going through and I'm staying here in Billings. It does not make any sence for me to move there when I can see him more from here. It just gets crazier and crazier.

Little update I'm still here in Billings waiting for a court date. I have seen him once since she took him so that was good. The court date is to determine if the divorce happens there or gets kicked out. After that I either get a divortce there or come back here and file. Then we deal with custody. I have not been doing very well but I am managing to hang in their and have as little patience as I can. I'll keep u all up to date.